You may already know where your patterns come from.
You may even be able to explain them beautifully.
And yet, when something hits, your body still braces, freezes, spirals or shuts down.
I help you slow that moment down and listen to what is happening underneath it.
Together, we work with your thoughts, emotions and nervous system; so change becomes something you can feel, not just something you understand.
Somatic therapy
Sex and intimacy counselling
Couples sessions
EMDR
Workshops and guided somatic practices
Available online and in person in Hoi An.
You understand the pattern, but still can’t stop it when you’re triggered.
You overthink conversations, decisions and relationships until you no longer know what you actually feel.
You say yes while something inside you is quietly saying no.
You swing between feeling too much and shutting down completely.
You struggle to rest without guilt or feel worthy without achieving something.
You lose yourself in relationships, become hyperaware of other people’s moods or question whether your needs are reasonable.
You keep having the same argument with your partner, even though neither of you wants to.
Sex feels pressured, disconnected, painful, performative or difficult to talk about.
You’ve tried talking, analysing and understanding, but your body keeps reacting as if nothing has changed.
You are not failing at healing. Your body may simply need to be included in the conversation.
What working with me looks like:
Working with me looks like honest conversations, curious questions and slowing down to notice what your body is saying underneath it all.
I use a combination of body based exercises (no touch), EMDR and practical tools, shaped around what you need and at a pace that feels safe.
We don’t just talk about why you feel stuck; we work with what happens in the moment, together.